Over the last two years, I’ve been dating different guys. None of them felt right. Then I met the one who did. There was a real spark between us and I never doubted for a minute that he wouldn’t call when he said he would. He wasn’t one of those smooth operators, in fact, he was a little shy. Well, he hasn’t called and I can’t make sense of it.

It does make sense. But you need to think differently. You are making a few assumptions. You were sure he would call because you were so compatible and got on so well together. You think that when a relationship fires like this, the couple would want to...